Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

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Not really sure how I became the go to person for advice, but it seems like all of my close friends seek advice from me. Now for those that know me I may start of with very unethical or unsounded advice jokingly.  (ex. I would have just chopped them in the throat) ….  After some Charlene stop playing I’m serious “Montage”.  The voice of reason kicks in and I give my non judgemental advice. Now I must say my advice isn’t for everyone and you must have a out of the box thinking personality to get my advice. In 39 years of being on this earth I have gone through so much unnecessary bull crap that would last some people for centuries. I mean some of the things I have experience just like you have been uncalled for. Things that make you look to God or whatever higher power you believe or not believe in a say REALLY? ARE YOU SERIOUS? Oh don’t forget the no words at all head shake.   So when giving advice I pull from my experience and just say what I wish someone had told me or the know

Love is a shared experience and if shared correctly it can be a heavenly thing. 

When was the last time you honestly let him just grab you from behind and shove his face into your neck and inhale your scent? I mean you know what kind of rush and endorphins open up when that hopes. Most sensual thing for some women.

Let me be the one you love on. I miss you when I am away from you. I miss your smell, smile, silliness and that look you give me when I do something stupid. Like Really boo. LOL I love having you around ...... you are my everything and I just want to love on you. Cuddle in your arms and rub your ears as you hold me close. I love that low husky growl you give when I hit that spot around your neck. You are my baby......such a strong part of me……...

We All have that person we just want to love on...

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms. Ladies take a moment and look at your kids, Lord knows they can strike a nerve, but we love those little/grown souls to death. As mom's they are a true marriage to death do us part. Our children will always be apart of us and they are a testament of how AWESOME OF A WOMEN YOU ARE. ***Don't let Noone tell you different. *** We are a doctor, lawyer, judge, jury, nurse, counselor, cook, homemaker and friend to our kids. So on this weekend take a moment and care for yourself, take that much needed nap, have that at home spa day even if the little hand comes under the door saying mom you in there. They will be okay. You are strong, wonderful and loved unconditionally by your children. Dad's I know you help , but shhhh it's about mom this weekend. Noone can replace her and you only get one biological mom.  So to all the moms I am screaming HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY WEEKEND....

Have you ever been in doubt about loving your spouse? I mean have you ever sat in a corner or at your dinner table and just ask yourself. Do I love him or her??? It happens with day to day living, bills, work, kids, little league games, volleyball practice. Don't throw a baby or caring for a elderly person in there you are seriously trying to reevaluate your life. So one day you are sitting on the couch or just mid conversation with your spouse you kind of tilt your head and out of no where you think do I love him or her? Maybe you just can't remember what it was that you loved about them. So you try to convince yourself yeah I still love them, but that small little voice in the back of your head is saying. No you don't and if you do why? That disconnection from your spouse can change everything in a blink of an eye. I mean one day your are skipping through the lilies and couple of years later you maybe in your own personal Hell. Thinking this is some bull....How did w

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Hey Loves, It's Saturday night and yes I am sitting in front of my computer. Tonight we are going to dedicate this song to all the strong men in our lives. When you get the chance YouTube Aloe Blacc song, "The Man". Powerful song and women we have to realize that the men in ours lives are "The Man".  They need love, affection, and attention just like we do. I think it was Bill Bellamy that said, young women need to take notes from older women on how to treat a man. Now not all older women, but stable older women. Ooohhh cause I know some older women that are freaks. Geesh LOL... But I digress... :) Seriously they need love too and to be honest there's nothing like a strong man no matter the race, creed, or color. A man is the closest thing to a heavenly image. Now every man doesn't fit this bill, if he abuses women/children in no way is he a man in a Godly image or The Man period, that's a coward hiding as a man. I mean

Single to Married How do we get from single to married without screwing it up? Good question… Sometimes we never make it out of the single zone, because we aren't willing to compromise. I mean really who doesn’t like sleeping horizontal in the bed. And after a certain age single people tend to get set in their ways and aren't willing to give in. With marriage or just a relationship period you have to be willing to give and take a little. You have to realize it's not all about you. (What do you mean it’s not about me, I am uber fabulous people? Think about it why should I share my chocolate double dipped vanilla ice cream cone with someone that’s going to slob all on it? LOL ) Naw seriously in a relationship the world revolves around both of you. So many relationship fail, because one is dominant, one is too passive or they just may not know how to approach a situation. So making it down the aisle becomes almost non-existent. Not saying that it won't hap

I often find myself listening to a song by Avery Sunshine called, "Call my Name". I wonder as I listen to the lyrics of the song how many women and men have experience this? Living in the same home with someone and not remembering the last time they called you by a endearing pet name. The issue that plagues most couples is that they can't remember when or what they fell apart about? When did the love stop and when did we start living as strangers? So many questions to ask, but for fear of starting a confrontation we keep quiet. Not knowing how to fix it or if it can be fixed? I just want to know when was the last time you called my name in a term of loving endearment?

I'm sitting in Atlanta rush hour traffic not sure why we aren't moving, but I'm vibing to the sounds of this sultry soul sista on the radio. I look over to my left and the most gorgeous almond colored man is looking at me smiling. I feel flushed with fever from embarrassment. His window is down and he say's, "No don't stop I like watching you sing." I love listening to sultry soul music also. I nod my head in agreement, however, I don't proceed to continue to sing instead I say, "whats your name sexy?" In a low husky voice he says," Johnathan". ( So if you know me, you know I have a thing for men with a deep raspy voice.) For a millisecond I close my eyes and replay his name in my head. Nice to meet you I am Sabrina. His eye's closes and he say's Sabrina mmmmmmm_______ I like the way your name rolls off your lips. I am surprised by his response. So Sabrina, if we ever get out of this traffic jam do you want to join me at

The scene is set and the vibe in the room is just right. This tall, handsome, sexy chocolate looking brutha walks through the doors. Demanding the attention of every female in attendance. He was well dressed from head to toe. Clothes hugging his limbs in all the right places. Enough to drive a women insane.  " Good God", the heavens were gracious when they made him. The voice of Billy Dee and the swagger of Marvin Gaye the brutha was bad. As he crosses the room he makes eye contact with each women he passes. A wink here, a hello there. My eyes never leaving his... I am watching as he comes closer, heart pounding a nervous ache in my belly, but a longing desire of knowing his touch ohhhh .. too well.  A women with a dress so tight you could see her heart beating, stops him. For a second I feel like I have been saved by her distraction. He acknowledges her and sends her on her way. He's closer now. My breathing is a littler heavier.  "Hello Sexy", for a m

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I wish you here... so we could walk along this beach together.  Holding hands splashing waves on each other. I can hear your husky laugh now and me screaming my hair is going to get wet. I miss those times and I miss you dearly it's sad that PRIDE has torn us apart. A simple I'm sorry would have been suffice, but pride wouldn't let either one of us say it.  Now I'm  missing you and All I want to say is I LOVE YOU. 

Noone can complete you, you have to complete yourself. A mate can either make your life better or make your life worst. You have to decide and make the first choice of loving you first.

I have found this has been the conversation of many women. Over the years women & men have put on a few pounds. The weight may come from being comfortable with past/present lovers, children, depression or just a love for food. Before I go forward with anything I pray about it. I didn't have the weight light bulb go off until I realize how fast 40 was coming(this yr). And I decided to make the change for me last year. Don't let anyone shame you into losing weight, because you'll start but may not finish cause you heart isn't in it. You'll know when it's the right time and once you start it will become your addiction. Losing weight is a lifestyle change. I wish you well on your journey. Have faith and don't get discourage. One pound at a time. Miracles and Blessings ....

Be brave

Good morning loves...

You ever have one of those days you just want to be held. No sex just being held in your love one arms.  I think kids got it right. There’s nothing more comforting than being held by the one that loves you. Some days a comforting hug is all that is needed to take the blues away. Did you know that hugs help people heal from depression? Yep, the cure of a loving hug.  Next time you are feeling blue say bae I just need a hug or sweetie come give mommy or daddy a hug. You will feel better. :)

We all need someone to look after us, even when we can or can't  look after ourselves. Companionship makes life so much easier.

Happy, Happy Easter everyone. Love you all....

So lately I have been feeling a little blue. And this feeling happens whether your single, married or in a committed relationship. Sometimes you just feel like they don't understand. And it's true they don't. They may love you unconditionally, but may never understand what ail's you. Sometimes your outer feature my not show the deep desire to escape. People may honestly think you are okay. If you haven't been there keep living I think women experience this more than men. Women are the caregivers, mommy, bae, sweetie and are expected to be strong. But who's going to be there for us? Who's going to pick up the pieces when we fall apart? Don't forget to take care of your spouse make time for them ask if they are okay and be willing to listen. It's not beneath you to listen, when you want sex you expect them to put out so damnit sit your ass in a chair and listen. This goes for both sexes. Your in a relationship to better each other not tear  each ot

In relationships we love to fat shame our mate. It's not a good thing at all if you love someone help them reach healthy goals. Over the years women & men have put on a few pounds. The weight may come from being comfortable with past/present lovers, children, depression or just a love for food. Before I go forward with anything I pray about it. I didn't have the weight light bulb go off until I realize how fast 40 was coming(this yr). And I decided to make the change for me last year. Don't let anyone shame you into losing weight, because you'll start but may not finish cause you heart isn't in it. You'll know when it's the right time and once you start it will become your addiction. Losing weight is a lifestyle change. I wish you all well on your journey. Have faith and don't get discourage. One pound at a time. Miracles and Blessings ....

Relationship  wisdom Everyday of your life is not going to be perfect. It just wasn't design to be that way. But what's perfect is how you handle adversity during your day. Don't let little things get under your skin, breathe, relax, relate,  and release. I know it's real easy the throat punch someone, but what will it accomplish?  A few moments of angry can give you a lifetime of pain. In this life we can be our own worst enemy and in this life we can be all that we have. Don't let someone dictate how your day will turn out. Seize the day and control your own destiny...

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Alright ladies when was the last time you had a warm bath, candles lite, glass of wine and standing in a sexy teddy waiting on your man after his long day of work?  Let's be honest we want them to do nice things for us, but we should do nice things for them too.

I am sure about what love has done. God has blessed me with your love. Our love will remain, no matter what... for worst or better...I will love you forever, and ever.

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We all love Romantic getaways.

Love is a crazy thing. I mean you have no control over who or whom it makes you love. Love can lead to depression, anger, sadness, etc. This 4 letter word holds so much weight. The Bible states Corinthians 13:13 and the greatest of these is LOVE. LOVE ladies and gentlemen can cause so many emotional feelings. It's the one thing man or woman we refuse to talk about as couples. We have to be honest with ourselves and with our mates about the love we feel or don't feel for them. Love can change a lot of things. We just have to be honest about it..

We base our desires to find a mate on many different things, finance, looks, attitude, attractiveness and did I say looks?  Living in Atlanta is seems that men choose women based on looks. Are you this glamor doll that weighs in at 190lbs, fat ass, perky breast and no stomach? It's the be all of the end all for me. I don't get it; what happen to getting to know a person not solely based on looks. I must say I am not 190lbs , but I am Hella attractive, curvy and witty. But lately I have found that I have fallen into this same mentality of looking for a mate based on looks. If I workout I feel like my mate should also. Is that fair and should he have a six pack stomach instead of a beer belly? Color or race doesn't matter to me. But I have been stuck on the body and attractiveness of a man.  So I can't say there aren't any good men out there, because how would I know based on what I have become accustomed to look for in a mate. Just makes me wonder sometimes????

So it's Saturday night people. Whoop, whoop time for some fun we get an extra hour to hang out and have some good safe, clean fun. So excited about Spring , it's on it loves....

Be happy and be in a healthy relationship

I had to share them on my blog. I have so much respect for this couple. They have given a true example of what love should and could be. #wanttobelikeyouwhenigrowup

Picture Speaks in Volumes. Love it...

Happy Tuesday everyone the weather here in the south is changing and it feels great. This is the time of year to get out--do some Spring cleaning with your spouse, lover or mate. I love this time of year along with the summer. When I retire I am going to retire in St. Bart, because I love the summer time weather so much. One day I will be doing this blog from my ocean view back porch. Until then kiss your love one's and have a wonderful day. Kisses

Comfort in your arms......

Cuddling can make things better.........

Some of a couple best moments can be spent just cuddling. It doesn't always have to be about sex. Just relaxing and being in each others company can be enough. Cuddling can bring a sense of security, can release good endorphins and produce a strong bond between a couple.

Every relationship no matter what your beliefs are should come together as one. This is a question most people don't ask before dating. What are your beliefs? Are you Christian, Muslim, Catholic, Atheist? A relationship will not work if 2 people have different beliefs. You will be unevenly yoked.

A women will always protect her man. She will protect him as long as she feels he will protect her with the same diligence and strength. A King is nothing without his Queen.

But sometimes it really is like this.

The moment  you realize how much you need them..

It's Sunday and the work week is just a few hours away. I don't want this moment to end.