Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

Every relationship no matter what your beliefs are should come together as one. This is a question most people don't ask before dating. What are your beliefs? Are you Christian, Muslim, Catholic, Atheist? A relationship will not work if 2 people have different beliefs. You will be unevenly yoked.

A women will always protect her man. She will protect him as long as she feels he will protect her with the same diligence and strength. A King is nothing without his Queen.

But sometimes it really is like this.

The moment  you realize how much you need them..

It's Sunday and the work week is just a few hours away. I don't want this moment to end.

I love you all...

Have a wonderful day lovelies. 

It's  Hummmpppp Dayyyyyy

I hope you all had a wonderful Tuesday..... tomorrows hummmmmppppp dddddaaayyyyy. LOL I'm acting silly, forgive me I'm too sleepy.. Anywho have a good night and kiss your love ones..

Love is a hell of a drug and if used wrong it will have you believing that you will die. When you lose someone that you love and just couldn't go to sleep without them its hard to move on. But you know what, pull yourself up, brush the dirt off and get back on the freaking horse. Ride that bad boy off into the sunset cause you can't find prince charming or your princess licking your wounds. Bandage those wounds and with time and good therapy they will heal. If you're not ready to ride off in the sunset, grab your horse by the reigns and walk side by side until you are ready to ride again. Les Brown once said, if you fall, fall on your back cause if you can look up , you can get up.

So the ultimate goal in life for some people is to find love. That one person you can't eat, sleep, or breathe without. For others it's money, owning a fortune 500 company or taking over a small hedge fund. No matter what your ultimate goal is in life do it and seek it with pride. Don't step on people trying to obtain your goal, be polite and never intentionally hurt someone. And if you do hurt them be man or women enough to apologize.

Submission: Women want a strong man that they can be submissive too,but not taken for granted or have their submission abused by his power. Because the act of submitting is to surrender to someone. As a women you have to figure out if the guy you are with is worth submitting too. Submission should be a gift and not a demand. When used the right way submission can be a wonderful thing on both parties. If you can submit in everyday duties to your man, submission in the bedroom will be no problem at all. Again if used correctly and respectfully it can be a heavenly thing for a couple. Start practicing the act of submission in your daily living if you have a mate and for those looking still practice submitting to different things in your life it will help you prepare for your future mate. Submission is not a form of weakness in a relationship its a gift.

So tonight is the last Monday of our leap year month. I hope you all have a wonderful night and for the ones here in Atlanta I hope you all are home and dry. It's really been raining here, good cuddling weather. Well guy's and doll's good night , don't forget to kiss your loves ones and never go to bed angry. Make it right before you go to sleep.  Kisses and Hugs..

Just know that I will always hold your hand, through the good time and the bad. I will never let you go......

Sometimes all you have to give is your love, patience and understanding. It's not silver and gold, but to the right person it can be worth so much more than silver and gold.

Currently I am a little baffle at what degree of my love should I share with a perspective partner and should I be open about how I feel if I am not sure if my perspective partner feels the same way about me? I have spoken with several guys that have really liked a girl and have felt like they loved her, but was so afraid to tell her. Do to the fact he thought she would change or put a label on their relationship. I have learned that guys are very go with the flow kind of people. And don't like to be pressured into a situation, be it a relationship or a marriage. To be honest I can't blame them. As I get older I am a little more skeptical about being in a committed relationship. Not that I am scared but,because I just like being a army of one.

Someone once told me that relationships weren't easy. And people are afraid to speak about love. I wonder why is it that? People can be so verbal about sex and controversial topics, but love they will not express how they feel. I have found that men are less likely to talk about love, especially to their mate. I think its this male stereotype thing that keeps them from being open about how they feel. On the other hand women are too vocal about love. They over stimulate their partner to the degree of him or her shutting down. There should be some kind of balance when it comes to expressing love. Guess we all have to find that balance.

IT'S MONDAY I HOPE EACH ONE OF YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL WORK WEEK.

Hope everyone has had a lovely Sunday.

Ladies, Men need love too. Let NO other women take your place and bring your man comfort in his time of need or attention. The same way you want him to give you attention or be there when you are having a one off day. He needs you the same . 

Remember you created that Brat by giving her or him everything.. LOL

It's all about the love and compassion of your family.

There will never be another couple like this in the White House. Proud to be apart of this history.

Well it's Saturday night guy's and doll's. I hope you are cuddling with your baby or your boo. And for the single and sexy be careful out at the clubs or at the bars. No matter where you are I hope you all have a wonderful and blissful Saturday night.. Kisses and warm Hugs loves...

As I sit and look across the table at you and look into your eyes. I see you.... deep into your soul the internal longing for happiness. It wasn't always this way, we once use to take long walks on the beach and strolls in the park. Now we just sit and look at each other wondering why have we stayed together this long? Not really sure I could answer that question.  All I know is that I would give any thing to give you that sparkle in your eye, to see that smile on your face and feel your warm embrace. But as we sit here, I have to deal with my demons and you with yours. Marriage isn't easy but we will get through this and if we don't I hope we can be friends. Sincerely letters from a broken man, I still love you..

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GOOD MORNING.  HOPE EVERYONE HAVE A WONDERFUL THURSDAY.. . KISSES

Good night loves

Still in Love Brian McKnight I think I must be dreaming That you are here with me Must have died and gone to heaven And it's all that I hoped it would be When the eagles forget how to fly When it's twenty below in July And when violets turn red And roses turn blue I'll be still in love with you I live to be around you You take my breath away Can't help but talk about you Every night and day When eagles forget how to fly And it's twenty below in July And when violets turn red And roses turn blue I'll be still in love with you All I need is you Need you just to hold me, console me Over and over.......I love you

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So many times we get caught up in the image or desire of sleeping with someone.  That we forget to become friends. It's very important to build a friendship first and gradually move to a relationship. Once the sex is gone what will you have? Will you even like the person outside of the bedroom?

We all want that goofy, playful love..

The one of the most romantic thing's  a man can do for his mate is cook. Especially if she's  working outside the home, taking care of the kids and taking care of him on all levels.

In order to build a dynasty a king will need his queen..

Have you ever had one of those kisses where you got so lost in the kiss you couldn't tell his or her soul from yours?

Longing for kisses that leave you breathless.

Sexy unconditional love.

We base our desires to find a mate on many different things, finance, looks, attitude, and did I say looks? Living in Atlanta is seems that men choose women based on looks. Are you this glamor doll that weighs in at 190lbs, fat ass, perky breast and no stomach? It's the be all of the end all for me. I don't get it; what happen to getting to know a person not solely based on looks. I must say I am not 190lbs , but I am Hella attractive, curvy and witty. But lately I have found that I have fallen into this same mentality of looking for a mate based on looks. If I workout I feel like my mate should also. Is that fair and should he have a six pack stomach instead of a beer belly? Color or race doesn't matter to me. But I have been stuck on the body and attractiveness of man.  So I can't say there aren't any good men out there,  because how would I know based on what I have become accustomed to look for in mate.  Just makes me wonder sometimes??????

Have a wonderful morning...