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Love Language

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“Did you know your love language doesn’t just affect your romantic relationship—it can shape how you connect with your friends, coworkers, and even clients?” “We all give and receive love differently. Some people light up when they hear words of affirmation, while others value quality time or acts of service. At home, this could mean writing a sweet note to your partner. At work, it might look like genuinely recognizing a teammate’s effort or spending focused time mentoring someone. When we pay attention to love languages, we learn how to make others feel seen, valued, and respected. And here’s the secret—when people feel understood, relationships grow stronger, trust deepens, and conflicts shrink.” “So, this week, try speaking someone’s love language—whether that’s saying, ‘I appreciate you,’ spending time with a friend, or even giving a small thoughtful gift. You’ll be surprised how much it strengthens every connection in your life.” “This has been Relationship Tuesday...I’m Ch...
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March 14, 2026 - Saturday

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Happy Saturday, loves, I hope you are all doing well today. As Fred Rogers used to say, “It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.” Another weekend is here, and many of us are trying to recover from the week. I’ll tell you the truth—two days off never feels like enough. After working 40 hours during the week, having only a couple of days to recharge can feel almost impossible. Still, I pray that each of you finds some form of happiness this weekend. Whether it comes in a physical way—through rest, laughter, or time with people you love—or simply in a quiet mental moment of peace, I hope it finds you. I also pray that we are all blessed with good health. For those of you who may be dealing with pain right now, I pray that the Heavenly Father eases your pain or removes it completely. And for my loves who are fighting cancer, I pray that you find comfort in knowing that everything will be okay and that you have the strength to keep fighting. This month is always a little difficult for me...
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Dealing with Burnout in your private life..

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In our day-to-day lives, we often think of burnout as something that only happens at our jobs. In actuality, burnout can occur anywhere. Moms can experience burnout from dealing with the kids, the chores, and even their spouse. Today, I want to talk about what you can do to take a few stolen minutes for yourself. Every day, set aside 5 to 10 minutes for yourself to start your healing journey. I don’t care if the kitchen is on fire or your spouse is complaining about something they can do themselves. Take a deep breath and repeat: I need a few minutes to regroup. I can’t be my best or give you my best if I am drowning. Trust me, I know all about drowning. It can feel like standing in the middle of a crowded mall screaming, and no one hears you. Heartbreaking. But today, we stop the heartbreak and say enough is enough. You only get one life to live, so for 5–10 minutes, start by saying: mom, dad… fuck those kids, fuck this laundry, and fuck everyone else’s feelings for a moment. What abo...
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Been Some Time Now

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So, again it has been a long time since I have written to you all. These days are built with stress, unusual worries and as always relationship problems.  This world has brought so many uncertainties and with the latest government takeover this seems to be a shitty country to be living in. So, Trump is now the president again for a second and final term we pray. His yes men and women now have us in an unwanted war with Iran. And let me say Iran isn’t playing with nobody these days. Like why Trump would even mess with those people. Gas prices are so high right now you must decide if you want food or gas to go to work. Damn shame you know. however, so many of us American are in the sinking ship together. Just unrealistic half of America is unemployed and up to their neck in debt. The bill collectors are calling daily, banks are taking credit cards back and landlords could care less about your unemployment. Is this what MAGA wanted when they voted for him, cause Hunny I voted for th...
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Happy Sunday Babies

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 Happy Sunday Babies, If you are in Atlanta and surrounding areas I hope you are staying warm. If you are in the California area my heart goes out to you all with all the fires. Please stay safe material things can be replace you and your family members can't . For those who lost family members in the fires my heart goes out to you all. Just checking in family on this Sunday Jan 12, 2025.  Miracle's and Blessing- Char 
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Self-worth

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  So, it's been almost a year since I wrote a blog post. And I have to tell you a lot has happened. Your girl found herself and she realized her worth. No more trying to look for love in all the wrong places. I really had to start loving me. For those of you out there that are wondering if you can stand on your own two (2) feet? Yes you can, baby let me tell you it feels fucking good to be able to say you don't need someone. Not saying we ever did but I mean in the since of love. LOVE THYSELF FIRST Sis men will be men some will cheat and look at you and be like what at least I told you. My nigga you got caught. Others will be like a thief in the night sneaking and ducking to make sure you never find out.  Girrrrrrrllllll STOP !!!!!!!! You deserve better. You are better than that. Also be careful of these men that will tell you what they think you want to hear just to sleep with you. I got a mofo right now if I see him on fire I will be like let that mofo burn lying deceiving...
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Happy Mother's Day

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 🎉 Hurray, it's Mother's Day once again! 🌺 A delightful day to honor the superhero moms across the globe! Whether you receive gifts or not, every mother deserves a standing ovation for their tireless efforts and unconditional love.  Being a mom is one of life's greatest challenges, and for single mamas out there, you are truly amazing! Running from one activity to the next, cheering at every game, play, and recital – you ladies are unstoppable! So let's raise our glasses 🥂 to the world's most fabulous moms! You juggle careers, households, and still manage to be the anchors of our families. On this beautiful Mother's Day, stand tall and proud, for you have earned the highest praise and admiration.  Give yourselves a round of applause, dear mommies! 👏👏👏 You are the real MVPs, and we celebrate your strength, resilience, and never-ending devotion. Happy Mother's Day to you all! 💖
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