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Dealing with Burnout in your private life..

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In our day-to-day lives, we often think of burnout as something that only happens at our jobs. In actuality, burnout can occur anywhere. Moms can experience burnout from dealing with the kids, the chores, and even their spouse. Today, I want to talk about what you can do to take a few stolen minutes for yourself. Every day, set aside 5 to 10 minutes for yourself to start your healing journey. I don’t care if the kitchen is on fire or your spouse is complaining about something they can do themselves. Take a deep breath and repeat: I need a few minutes to regroup. I can’t be my best or give you my best if I am drowning. Trust me, I know all about drowning. It can feel like standing in the middle of a crowded mall screaming, and no one hears you. Heartbreaking. But today, we stop the heartbreak and say enough is enough. You only get one life to live, so for 5–10 minutes, start by saying: mom, dad… fuck those kids, fuck this laundry, and fuck everyone else’s feelings for a moment. What abo...
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Been Some Time Now

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So, again it has been a long time since I have written to you all. These days are built with stress, unusual worries and as always relationship problems.  This world has brought so many uncertainties and with the latest government takeover this seems to be a shitty country to be living in. So, Trump is now the president again for a second and final term we pray. His yes men and women now have us in an unwanted war with Iran. And let me say Iran isn’t playing with nobody these days. Like why Trump would even mess with those people. Gas prices are so high right now you must decide if you want food or gas to go to work. Damn shame you know. however, so many of us American are in the sinking ship together. Just unrealistic half of America is unemployed and up to their neck in debt. The bill collectors are calling daily, banks are taking credit cards back and landlords could care less about your unemployment. Is this what MAGA wanted when they voted for him, cause Hunny I voted for th...
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Happy Sunday Babies

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 Happy Sunday Babies, If you are in Atlanta and surrounding areas I hope you are staying warm. If you are in the California area my heart goes out to you all with all the fires. Please stay safe material things can be replace you and your family members can't . For those who lost family members in the fires my heart goes out to you all. Just checking in family on this Sunday Jan 12, 2025.  Miracle's and Blessing- Char 
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Self-worth

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  So, it's been almost a year since I wrote a blog post. And I have to tell you a lot has happened. Your girl found herself and she realized her worth. No more trying to look for love in all the wrong places. I really had to start loving me. For those of you out there that are wondering if you can stand on your own two (2) feet? Yes you can, baby let me tell you it feels fucking good to be able to say you don't need someone. Not saying we ever did but I mean in the since of love. LOVE THYSELF FIRST Sis men will be men some will cheat and look at you and be like what at least I told you. My nigga you got caught. Others will be like a thief in the night sneaking and ducking to make sure you never find out.  Girrrrrrrllllll STOP !!!!!!!! You deserve better. You are better than that. Also be careful of these men that will tell you what they think you want to hear just to sleep with you. I got a mofo right now if I see him on fire I will be like let that mofo burn lying deceiving...
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Happy Mother's Day

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 🎉 Hurray, it's Mother's Day once again! 🌺 A delightful day to honor the superhero moms across the globe! Whether you receive gifts or not, every mother deserves a standing ovation for their tireless efforts and unconditional love.  Being a mom is one of life's greatest challenges, and for single mamas out there, you are truly amazing! Running from one activity to the next, cheering at every game, play, and recital – you ladies are unstoppable! So let's raise our glasses 🥂 to the world's most fabulous moms! You juggle careers, households, and still manage to be the anchors of our families. On this beautiful Mother's Day, stand tall and proud, for you have earned the highest praise and admiration.  Give yourselves a round of applause, dear mommies! 👏👏👏 You are the real MVPs, and we celebrate your strength, resilience, and never-ending devotion. Happy Mother's Day to you all! 💖
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One day

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 Happy Sunday my luv's, I hope you all are doing well and finding love in all the right places. Remember to heal from your past and don't make anyone else pay for your past mistakes. There are people out here looking for real, honest love.  Let them in and they just might be your BLESSING...
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Are we really doing okay?

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  Hi beautiful loves, I hope you all are doing well. Can't say I am 100 % great, but I am a good 80 % today. You know life is funny; some days, I am kicking life's ass, and other days it's kicking mines. I beat myself up too much; like many women, I wish I had a partner that wanted to do weekend warrior projects with me.  Honestly, I think all of those men are dead. It's so fucking depressing. I mean, where are the men that want to do the thing with their girl, wife, partner, or bae. Seems like women have to either do everything alone or with their children. What do you do when the children are grown, and you have no one?  I am so sick of being alone. I have a partner, but we rarely do stuff together. There has to be more to relationships than just sex and daily 20-30 minute phone calls to say you are connected with a person to keep an open line of communication. Just sad..... I'm not going to use the blog insert to wallow in my self-pity. Just a minute to vent to t...
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