Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

What is going on???? You have these men that go out of their way to get you. Date you for a few months and the first confrontation about another women he cuts you off. What grown ass man does that? I am so confused right now....

I love to sit and watch how you interact with others how you move, talk, and your pose. All speaks in volumes to me. The smoothness of your skin, your voice, and the feel of your deep struck all shows your style.  It makes me scared cause I don't know where this is going. I'm I falling too deep,  too fast, or is it just what it is? I don't know but your soul speaks to my soul and she is digging you my beautiful Black man.  She loves to see you and hate when it's time to go. She doesn't know what to do. She just knows that she loves every ounce of you and even more. Her only concern is she afraid to open up her heart because she doesn't want to get hurt anymore. My dear black man let her know it's okay to love you and she will multiple that love tenfold.  Miracles and Blessing  Char

Why is it that some men will never tell you that you are beautiful until you leave them? And some men remind you everyday of how beautiful you are.. Ladies your melanin is BEAUTIFUL..

Men seem to be more of an emotional creature than women nowadays. Simple miss understanding can turn into him acting all emotional and bitchy. Sometimes I wonder where are the real men that seek understand to understand and to make things better. Without making the women feel rejected. It's truly exhausting. I am just lost times.  But I can't worry about another I have to self care and make sure I am good. Just too much sometimes. Miracles and Blessings  Char

I often wonder if I have truly experienced that can't eat, can't sleep, or can't breathe without you love? Sometimes I am like damn I have loved and lost, lost and loved. Such a vicious cycle. I am not looking for that shit again. I'm not saying F$%^ love, but not looking.  I do want someone to enjoy the good times with and a few bad. More good than bad. Cause nothing is promise to us. So we have to live in the moment.  Enjoy it, remember it and do our best not to hurt.  Right now taking it one day at a time. I love love and the idea of love. But what is love????

So I try to be as transparent as I can about my life and still be private. Lately alot has happen...like my marriage of 3 years as come to an end. Honestly I ain't even mad, a little hurt sure but you can love a person and love yourself enough to know it's no longer a good fit.  I always tell y'all your happiness matters more than making someone else happy. People come and go but your happiness is all you have. So from this point on this black girl is rocking this life out. I turned 45 a month ago and had all kinds of epiphanies. Being selfish right now,  Covid-19 got a chick on look down from traveling like I want but I am going to live, be happy and have some good sex along the way. 😄 Be bless y'all happy Thursday.   Miracles and Blessings- Char

We all want that man that will give us that Trey Songz Super Doper Jupiter love. You know that lover that after spending a evening cuddling on the sofa says, come on baby let's go to bed. In that low sexy nurturing voice you can't  help but comply and be like okay papi.  Then he has his way with you leaving you exhausted and sexually satisfied all in one. You both collapse into this long deep sleep just to wake up around 2 am to do it all over again. Or that early 6am sex before work..you know that sex that has your girl( vagina) acting up just from the memory of him entering you. Even guys have a relapse of how good the pussy is during the day. Having him grabbing his little big man thinking I'ma wax that ass when I get home.  The idea of intimacy and sexual bliss is all we need and long for some days. It helps us both deal with the challenges of the world.  I hope we all find it one day with a special vibrant soul that pours positive vibes into your life.