Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

You ever have one of those days you just want to be held. No sex just being held in your love one arms.  I think kids got it right. There’s nothing more comforting than being held by the one that loves you. Some days a comforting hug is all that is needed to take the blues away. Did you know that hugs help people heal from depression? Yep, the cure of a loving hug.  Next time you are feeling blue say bae I just need a hug or sweetie come give mommy or daddy a hug. You will feel better. :)

We all need someone to look after us, even when we can or can't  look after ourselves. Companionship makes life so much easier.

Happy, Happy Easter everyone. Love you all....

So lately I have been feeling a little blue. And this feeling happens whether your single, married or in a committed relationship. Sometimes you just feel like they don't understand. And it's true they don't. They may love you unconditionally, but may never understand what ail's you. Sometimes your outer feature my not show the deep desire to escape. People may honestly think you are okay. If you haven't been there keep living I think women experience this more than men. Women are the caregivers, mommy, bae, sweetie and are expected to be strong. But who's going to be there for us? Who's going to pick up the pieces when we fall apart? Don't forget to take care of your spouse make time for them ask if they are okay and be willing to listen. It's not beneath you to listen, when you want sex you expect them to put out so damnit sit your ass in a chair and listen. This goes for both sexes. Your in a relationship to better each other not tear  each ot

In relationships we love to fat shame our mate. It's not a good thing at all if you love someone help them reach healthy goals. Over the years women & men have put on a few pounds. The weight may come from being comfortable with past/present lovers, children, depression or just a love for food. Before I go forward with anything I pray about it. I didn't have the weight light bulb go off until I realize how fast 40 was coming(this yr). And I decided to make the change for me last year. Don't let anyone shame you into losing weight, because you'll start but may not finish cause you heart isn't in it. You'll know when it's the right time and once you start it will become your addiction. Losing weight is a lifestyle change. I wish you all well on your journey. Have faith and don't get discourage. One pound at a time. Miracles and Blessings ....

Relationship  wisdom Everyday of your life is not going to be perfect. It just wasn't design to be that way. But what's perfect is how you handle adversity during your day. Don't let little things get under your skin, breathe, relax, relate,  and release. I know it's real easy the throat punch someone, but what will it accomplish?  A few moments of angry can give you a lifetime of pain. In this life we can be our own worst enemy and in this life we can be all that we have. Don't let someone dictate how your day will turn out. Seize the day and control your own destiny...

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Alright ladies when was the last time you had a warm bath, candles lite, glass of wine and standing in a sexy teddy waiting on your man after his long day of work?  Let's be honest we want them to do nice things for us, but we should do nice things for them too.

I am sure about what love has done. God has blessed me with your love. Our love will remain, no matter what... for worst or better...I will love you forever, and ever.

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Love is a crazy thing. I mean you have no control over who or whom it makes you love. Love can lead to depression, anger, sadness, etc. This 4 letter word holds so much weight. The Bible states Corinthians 13:13 and the greatest of these is LOVE. LOVE ladies and gentlemen can cause so many emotional feelings. It's the one thing man or woman we refuse to talk about as couples. We have to be honest with ourselves and with our mates about the love we feel or don't feel for them. Love can change a lot of things. We just have to be honest about it..

We base our desires to find a mate on many different things, finance, looks, attitude, attractiveness and did I say looks?  Living in Atlanta is seems that men choose women based on looks. Are you this glamor doll that weighs in at 190lbs, fat ass, perky breast and no stomach? It's the be all of the end all for me. I don't get it; what happen to getting to know a person not solely based on looks. I must say I am not 190lbs , but I am Hella attractive, curvy and witty. But lately I have found that I have fallen into this same mentality of looking for a mate based on looks. If I workout I feel like my mate should also. Is that fair and should he have a six pack stomach instead of a beer belly? Color or race doesn't matter to me. But I have been stuck on the body and attractiveness of a man.  So I can't say there aren't any good men out there, because how would I know based on what I have become accustomed to look for in a mate. Just makes me wonder sometimes????

So it's Saturday night people. Whoop, whoop time for some fun we get an extra hour to hang out and have some good safe, clean fun. So excited about Spring , it's on it loves....

Be happy and be in a healthy relationship

I had to share them on my blog. I have so much respect for this couple. They have given a true example of what love should and could be. #wanttobelikeyouwhenigrowup

Picture Speaks in Volumes. Love it...

Happy Tuesday everyone the weather here in the south is changing and it feels great. This is the time of year to get out--do some Spring cleaning with your spouse, lover or mate. I love this time of year along with the summer. When I retire I am going to retire in St. Bart, because I love the summer time weather so much. One day I will be doing this blog from my ocean view back porch. Until then kiss your love one's and have a wonderful day. Kisses

Comfort in your arms......

Cuddling can make things better.........

Some of a couple best moments can be spent just cuddling. It doesn't always have to be about sex. Just relaxing and being in each others company can be enough. Cuddling can bring a sense of security, can release good endorphins and produce a strong bond between a couple.