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 Happy Sunday my luv's, I hope you all are doing well and finding love in all the right places. Remember to heal from your past and don't make anyone else pay for your past mistakes. There are people out here looking for real, honest love.  Let them in and they just might be your BLESSING...

Are we really doing okay?

  Hi beautiful loves, I hope you all are doing well. Can't say I am 100 % great, but I am a good 80 % today. You know life is funny; some days, I am kicking life's ass, and other days it's kicking mines. I beat myself up too much; like many women, I wish I had a partner that wanted to do weekend warrior projects with me.  Honestly, I think all of those men are dead. It's so fucking depressing. I mean, where are the men that want to do the thing with their girl, wife, partner, or bae. Seems like women have to either do everything alone or with their children. What do you do when the children are grown, and you have no one?  I am so sick of being alone. I have a partner, but we rarely do stuff together. There has to be more to relationships than just sex and daily 20-30 minute phone calls to say you are connected with a person to keep an open line of communication. Just sad..... I'm not going to use the blog insert to wallow in my self-pity. Just a minute to vent to t

Never give up on LOVE ... cc2023

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So it's been a while since I wrote an insert on my blog; been over a year now. I have been waiting on something to say to you all. So much has happened. I tried to rekindle an old relationship I thought was love and lost. 2022 was a Bitch. I spent most of the year looking for a place to live, and my life was pretty much shut down. It wasn't perfect, and I gained so much weight. I didn't know who I was; I wasn't Char anymore. I was becoming this middle, age Bitter Black Woman. ( And I didn't want to be her ass; EVER) Really glad I am turning a new season of change. ( Sage really works) Recently re-found love again in a much younger man. Felt like Stella got her groove back. LOL He actually makes me very happy and keeps me young physically. I have always felt young at heart, but now I feel young at heart, mind, and body. Let's not leave out the sex; it is so good, girl. Let me tell ya, I have been with different men in my lifetime, but this right here, my sis