Love is Confusing

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Currently I am a little baffle at what degree of my love should I share with a perspective partner and should I be open about how I feel if I am not sure if my perspective partner feels the same way about me?

I have spoken with several guys that have really liked a girl and have felt like they loved her, but was so afraid to tell her. Do to the fact he thought she would change or put a label on their relationship.

I have learned that guys are very go with the flow kind of people. And don't like to be pressured into a situation, be it a relationship or a marriage. To be honest I can't blame them. As I get older I am a little more skeptical about being in a committed relationship. Not that I am scared but,because I just like being a army of one.

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