I think I love my husband or wife.
Have you ever been in doubt about loving your spouse?
I mean have you ever sat in a corner or at your dinner table and just ask yourself. Do I love him or her???
It happens with day to day living, bills, work, kids, little league games, volleyball practice. Don't throw a baby or caring for a elderly person in there you are seriously trying to reevaluate your life.
So one day you are sitting on the couch or just mid conversation with your spouse you kind of tilt your head and out of no where you think do I love him or her?
Maybe you just can't remember what it was that you loved about them. So you try to convince yourself yeah I still love them, but that small little voice in the back of your head is saying. No you don't and if you do why? That disconnection from your spouse can change everything in a blink of an eye. I mean one day your are skipping through the lilies and couple of years later you maybe in your own personal Hell. Thinking this is some bull....How did we get here? It can be devastating if you are not prepared to talk about what you are feeling with your spouse.
You find yourself not being able to breathe and you feel like every part of you is dying everyday. I know I have been there. Where I felt like if I didn't get out I would drown in the stale air. After several years of talking with my ex-husband I came to realize I had to get out. He clearly wasn't changing and I was going to die if I didn't do something. So I took a leap of faith ( irony) and ended my marriage. Now I am not saying this is the best thing to do, because for some it very well may not be the thing to do at all. Hell yeah it's scary,but for me it was more scarier trying to figured out if I loved him or not and if I could go on living the life I was living with him? No one should feel this way.
The biggest thing you should do when you have that doubting question I think I love my husband or wife is to write down the pros and cons of the relationship , are you willing to listen and be open to change once you hear their view or if you have that leap of faith thing going on. Either way this is a serious question that only you can answer. But it's a question many try not to ask themselves and become a slave to life, but others like myself will take a leap into the side of a box car on a moving train. Love, relationships and sex. 3 things that will make you say confusingly I think I love my spouse. When in reality you need to reevaluate your situation. Love is hard and it can be confusing. Just be honest with yourself.
I mean have you ever sat in a corner or at your dinner table and just ask yourself. Do I love him or her???
It happens with day to day living, bills, work, kids, little league games, volleyball practice. Don't throw a baby or caring for a elderly person in there you are seriously trying to reevaluate your life.
So one day you are sitting on the couch or just mid conversation with your spouse you kind of tilt your head and out of no where you think do I love him or her?
Maybe you just can't remember what it was that you loved about them. So you try to convince yourself yeah I still love them, but that small little voice in the back of your head is saying. No you don't and if you do why? That disconnection from your spouse can change everything in a blink of an eye. I mean one day your are skipping through the lilies and couple of years later you maybe in your own personal Hell. Thinking this is some bull....How did we get here? It can be devastating if you are not prepared to talk about what you are feeling with your spouse.
You find yourself not being able to breathe and you feel like every part of you is dying everyday. I know I have been there. Where I felt like if I didn't get out I would drown in the stale air. After several years of talking with my ex-husband I came to realize I had to get out. He clearly wasn't changing and I was going to die if I didn't do something. So I took a leap of faith ( irony) and ended my marriage. Now I am not saying this is the best thing to do, because for some it very well may not be the thing to do at all. Hell yeah it's scary,but for me it was more scarier trying to figured out if I loved him or not and if I could go on living the life I was living with him? No one should feel this way.
The biggest thing you should do when you have that doubting question I think I love my husband or wife is to write down the pros and cons of the relationship , are you willing to listen and be open to change once you hear their view or if you have that leap of faith thing going on. Either way this is a serious question that only you can answer. But it's a question many try not to ask themselves and become a slave to life, but others like myself will take a leap into the side of a box car on a moving train. Love, relationships and sex. 3 things that will make you say confusingly I think I love my spouse. When in reality you need to reevaluate your situation. Love is hard and it can be confusing. Just be honest with yourself.
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