Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

“Did you know your love language doesn’t just affect your romantic relationship—it can shape how you connect with your friends, coworkers, and even clients?” “We all give and receive love differently. Some people light up when they hear words of affirmation, while others value quality time or acts of service. At home, this could mean writing a sweet note to your partner. At work, it might look like genuinely recognizing a teammate’s effort or spending focused time mentoring someone. When we pay attention to love languages, we learn how to make others feel seen, valued, and respected. And here’s the secret—when people feel understood, relationships grow stronger, trust deepens, and conflicts shrink.” “So, this week, try speaking someone’s love language—whether that’s saying, ‘I appreciate you,’ spending time with a friend, or even giving a small thoughtful gift. You’ll be surprised how much it strengthens every connection in your life.” “This has been Relationship Tuesday...I’m Ch...

Happy Saturday, loves, I hope you are all doing well today. As Fred Rogers used to say, “It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.” Another weekend is here, and many of us are trying to recover from the week. I’ll tell you the truth—two days off never feels like enough. After working 40 hours during the week, having only a couple of days to recharge can feel almost impossible. Still, I pray that each of you finds some form of happiness this weekend. Whether it comes in a physical way—through rest, laughter, or time with people you love—or simply in a quiet mental moment of peace, I hope it finds you. I also pray that we are all blessed with good health. For those of you who may be dealing with pain right now, I pray that the Heavenly Father eases your pain or removes it completely. And for my loves who are fighting cancer, I pray that you find comfort in knowing that everything will be okay and that you have the strength to keep fighting. This month is always a little difficult for me...

In our day-to-day lives, we often think of burnout as something that only happens at our jobs. In actuality, burnout can occur anywhere. Moms can experience burnout from dealing with the kids, the chores, and even their spouse. Today, I want to talk about what you can do to take a few stolen minutes for yourself. Every day, set aside 5 to 10 minutes for yourself to start your healing journey. I don’t care if the kitchen is on fire or your spouse is complaining about something they can do themselves. Take a deep breath and repeat: I need a few minutes to regroup. I can’t be my best or give you my best if I am drowning. Trust me, I know all about drowning. It can feel like standing in the middle of a crowded mall screaming, and no one hears you. Heartbreaking. But today, we stop the heartbreak and say enough is enough. You only get one life to live, so for 5–10 minutes, start by saying: mom, dad… fuck those kids, fuck this laundry, and fuck everyone else’s feelings for a moment. What abo...

So, again it has been a long time since I have written to you all. These days are built with stress, unusual worries and as always relationship problems.  This world has brought so many uncertainties and with the latest government takeover this seems to be a shitty country to be living in. So, Trump is now the president again for a second and final term we pray. His yes men and women now have us in an unwanted war with Iran. And let me say Iran isn’t playing with nobody these days. Like why Trump would even mess with those people. Gas prices are so high right now you must decide if you want food or gas to go to work. Damn shame you know. however, so many of us American are in the sinking ship together. Just unrealistic half of America is unemployed and up to their neck in debt. The bill collectors are calling daily, banks are taking credit cards back and landlords could care less about your unemployment. Is this what MAGA wanted when they voted for him, cause Hunny I voted for th...

 Happy Sunday Babies, If you are in Atlanta and surrounding areas I hope you are staying warm. If you are in the California area my heart goes out to you all with all the fires. Please stay safe material things can be replace you and your family members can't . For those who lost family members in the fires my heart goes out to you all. Just checking in family on this Sunday Jan 12, 2025.  Miracle's and Blessing- Char 

  So, it's been almost a year since I wrote a blog post. And I have to tell you a lot has happened. Your girl found herself and she realized her worth. No more trying to look for love in all the wrong places. I really had to start loving me. For those of you out there that are wondering if you can stand on your own two (2) feet? Yes you can, baby let me tell you it feels fucking good to be able to say you don't need someone. Not saying we ever did but I mean in the since of love. LOVE THYSELF FIRST Sis men will be men some will cheat and look at you and be like what at least I told you. My nigga you got caught. Others will be like a thief in the night sneaking and ducking to make sure you never find out.  Girrrrrrrllllll STOP !!!!!!!! You deserve better. You are better than that. Also be careful of these men that will tell you what they think you want to hear just to sleep with you. I got a mofo right now if I see him on fire I will be like let that mofo burn lying deceiving...

 🎉 Hurray, it's Mother's Day once again! 🌺 A delightful day to honor the superhero moms across the globe! Whether you receive gifts or not, every mother deserves a standing ovation for their tireless efforts and unconditional love.  Being a mom is one of life's greatest challenges, and for single mamas out there, you are truly amazing! Running from one activity to the next, cheering at every game, play, and recital – you ladies are unstoppable! So let's raise our glasses 🥂 to the world's most fabulous moms! You juggle careers, households, and still manage to be the anchors of our families. On this beautiful Mother's Day, stand tall and proud, for you have earned the highest praise and admiration.  Give yourselves a round of applause, dear mommies! 👏👏👏 You are the real MVPs, and we celebrate your strength, resilience, and never-ending devotion. Happy Mother's Day to you all! 💖

 Happy Sunday my luv's, I hope you all are doing well and finding love in all the right places. Remember to heal from your past and don't make anyone else pay for your past mistakes. There are people out here looking for real, honest love.  Let them in and they just might be your BLESSING...

  Hi beautiful loves, I hope you all are doing well. Can't say I am 100 % great, but I am a good 80 % today. You know life is funny; some days, I am kicking life's ass, and other days it's kicking mines. I beat myself up too much; like many women, I wish I had a partner that wanted to do weekend warrior projects with me.  Honestly, I think all of those men are dead. It's so fucking depressing. I mean, where are the men that want to do the thing with their girl, wife, partner, or bae. Seems like women have to either do everything alone or with their children. What do you do when the children are grown, and you have no one?  I am so sick of being alone. I have a partner, but we rarely do stuff together. There has to be more to relationships than just sex and daily 20-30 minute phone calls to say you are connected with a person to keep an open line of communication. Just sad..... I'm not going to use the blog insert to wallow in my self-pity. Just a minute to vent to t...

So it's been a while since I wrote an insert on my blog; been over a year now. I have been waiting on something to say to you all. So much has happened. I tried to rekindle an old relationship I thought was love and lost. 2022 was a Bitch. I spent most of the year looking for a place to live, and my life was pretty much shut down. It wasn't perfect, and I gained so much weight. I didn't know who I was; I wasn't Char anymore. I was becoming this middle, age Bitter Black Woman. ( And I didn't want to be her ass; EVER) Really glad I am turning a new season of change. ( Sage really works) Recently re-found love again in a much younger man. Felt like Stella got her groove back. LOL He actually makes me very happy and keeps me young physically. I have always felt young at heart, but now I feel young at heart, mind, and body. Let's not leave out the sex; it is so good, girl. Let me tell ya, I have been with different men in my lifetime, but this right here, my sis...

What is going on???? You have these men that go out of their way to get you. Date you for a few months and the first confrontation about another women he cuts you off. What grown ass man does that? I am so confused right now....

I love to sit and watch how you interact with others how you move, talk, and your pose. All speaks in volumes to me. The smoothness of your skin, your voice, and the feel of your deep struck all shows your style.  It makes me scared cause I don't know where this is going. I'm I falling too deep,  too fast, or is it just what it is? I don't know but your soul speaks to my soul and she is digging you my beautiful Black man.  She loves to see you and hate when it's time to go. She doesn't know what to do. She just knows that she loves every ounce of you and even more. Her only concern is she afraid to open up her heart because she doesn't want to get hurt anymore. My dear black man let her know it's okay to love you and she will multiple that love tenfold.  Miracles and Blessing  Char

Why is it that some men will never tell you that you are beautiful until you leave them? And some men remind you everyday of how beautiful you are.. Ladies your melanin is BEAUTIFUL..

Men seem to be more of an emotional creature than women nowadays. Simple miss understanding can turn into him acting all emotional and bitchy. Sometimes I wonder where are the real men that seek understand to understand and to make things better. Without making the women feel rejected. It's truly exhausting. I am just lost times.  But I can't worry about another I have to self care and make sure I am good. Just too much sometimes. Miracles and Blessings   Char

I often wonder if I have truly experienced that can't eat, can't sleep, or can't breathe without you love? Sometimes I am like damn I have loved and lost, lost and loved. Such a vicious cycle. I am not looking for that shit again. I'm not saying F$%^ love, but not looking.  I do want someone to enjoy the good times with and a few bad. More good than bad. Cause nothing is promise to us. So we have to live in the moment.  Enjoy it, remember it and do our best not to hurt.  Right now taking it one day at a time. I love and the idea of love. But what is love????

So I try to be as transparent as I can about my life and still be private. Lately alot has happen...like my marriage of 3 years as come to an end. Honestly I ain't even mad, a little hurt sure but you can love a person and love yourself enough to know it's no longer a good fit.  I always tell y'all your happiness matters more than making someone else happy. People come and go but your happiness is all you have. So from this point on this black girl is rocking this life out. I turned 45 a month ago and had all kinds of epiphanies. Being selfish right now,  Covid-19 got a chick on look down from traveling like I want but I am going to live, be happy and have some good sex along the way. 😄 Be bless y'all happy Thursday.   Miracles and Blessings- Char

We all want that man that will give us that Trey Songz Super Doper Jupiter love. You know that lover that after spending a evening cuddling on the sofa says, come on baby let's go to bed. In that low sexy nurturing voice you can't  help but comply and be like okay papi.  Then he has his way with you leaving you exhausted and sexually satisfied all in one. You both collapse into this long deep sleep just to wake up around 2 am to do it all over again. Or that early 6am sex before work..you know that sex that has your girl( vagina) acting up just from the memory of him entering you. Even guys have a relapse of how good the pussy is during the day. Having him grabbing his little big man thinking I'ma wax that ass when I get home.  The idea of intimacy and sexual bliss is all we need and long for some days. It helps us both deal with the challenges of the world.  I hope we all find it one day with a special vibrant soul that pours positive vibes into your lif...

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Remember when love songs said everything you wanted to say. Those break up to make up songs. The late nights listening to the Quiet Storm on the radio as a teenager. Some maybe too young to remember but, that was when all the love songs played. You would sneak on the phone late at night making a request when you was supposed to be in bed. Next day meeting up with your boyfriend or girlfriend at school. Everyone saying ahhhhhh I heard y'all song. Moving into adulthood  those love songs became the songs you made love too or knocked the boots too. Man I miss the 90's. Where did all the real singers go. Now in my mid-forties Saturday and Sunday nights are our night for love songs. Songs help you remember what love is all about. Help you remember why you feel in or out of love. One thing is for sure when you can't find the words find a song that can say it for you.. Miracles and Blessings luv's