Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

Hey Loves, It's Saturday night and yes I am sitting in front of my computer. Tonight we are going to dedicate this song to all the strong men in our lives. When you get the chance YouTube Aloe Blacc song, "The Man". Powerful song and women we have to realize that the men in ours lives are "The Man".  They need love, affection, and attention just like we do. I think it was Bill Bellamy that said, young women need to take notes from older women on how to treat a man. Now not all older women, but stable older women. Ooohhh cause I know some older women that are freaks. Geesh LOL... But I digress... :) Seriously they need love too and to be honest there's nothing like a strong man no matter the race, creed, or color. A man is the closest thing to a heavenly image. Now every man doesn't fit this bill, if he abuses women/children in no way is he a man in a Godly image or The Man period, that's a coward hiding as a man. I mean ...

Single to Married How do we get from single to married without screwing it up? Good question… Sometimes we never make it out of the single zone, because we aren't willing to compromise. I mean really who doesn’t like sleeping horizontal in the bed. And after a certain age single people tend to get set in their ways and aren't willing to give in. With marriage or just a relationship period you have to be willing to give and take a little. You have to realize it's not all about you. (What do you mean it’s not about me, I am uber fabulous people? Think about it why should I share my chocolate double dipped vanilla ice cream cone with someone that’s going to slob all on it? LOL ) Naw seriously in a relationship the world revolves around both of you. So many relationship fail, because one is dominant, one is too passive or they just may not know how to approach a situation. So making it down the aisle becomes almost non-existent. Not saying that it won't hap...

I often find myself listening to a song by Avery Sunshine called, "Call my Name". I wonder as I listen to the lyrics of the song how many women and men have experience this? Living in the same home with someone and not remembering the last time they called you by a endearing pet name. The issue that plagues most couples is that they can't remember when or what they fell apart about? When did the love stop and when did we start living as strangers? So many questions to ask, but for fear of starting a confrontation we keep quiet. Not knowing how to fix it or if it can be fixed? I just want to know when was the last time you called my name in a term of loving endearment?

I'm sitting in Atlanta rush hour traffic not sure why we aren't moving, but I'm vibing to the sounds of this sultry soul sista on the radio. I look over to my left and the most gorgeous almond colored man is looking at me smiling. I feel flushed with fever from embarrassment. His window is down and he say's, "No don't stop I like watching you sing." I love listening to sultry soul music also. I nod my head in agreement, however, I don't proceed to continue to sing instead I say, "whats your name sexy?" In a low husky voice he says," Johnathan". ( So if you know me, you know I have a thing for men with a deep raspy voice.) For a millisecond I close my eyes and replay his name in my head. Nice to meet you I am Sabrina. His eye's closes and he say's Sabrina mmmmmmm_______ I like the way your name rolls off your lips. I am surprised by his response. So Sabrina, if we ever get out of this traffic jam do you want to join me at...

The scene is set and the vibe in the room is just right. This tall, handsome, sexy chocolate looking brutha walks through the doors. Demanding the attention of every female in attendance. He was well dressed from head to toe. Clothes hugging his limbs in all the right places. Enough to drive a women insane.  " Good God", the heavens were gracious when they made him. The voice of Billy Dee and the swagger of Marvin Gaye the brutha was bad. As he crosses the room he makes eye contact with each women he passes. A wink here, a hello there. My eyes never leaving his... I am watching as he comes closer, heart pounding a nervous ache in my belly, but a longing desire of knowing his touch ohhhh .. too well.  A women with a dress so tight you could see her heart beating, stops him. For a second I feel like I have been saved by her distraction. He acknowledges her and sends her on her way. He's closer now. My breathing is a littler heavier.  "Hello Sexy", for a m...

https://play.google.com/music/m/Tl5zwek2zcbeqblm2lgqwpp6sii?t=I_Would_Die_4_U_-_Prince

I wish you here... so we could walk along this beach together.  Holding hands splashing waves on each other. I can hear your husky laugh now and me screaming my hair is going to get wet. I miss those times and I miss you dearly it's sad that PRIDE has torn us apart. A simple I'm sorry would have been suffice, but pride wouldn't let either one of us say it.  Now I'm  missing you and All I want to say is I LOVE YOU. 

Noone can complete you, you have to complete yourself. A mate can either make your life better or make your life worst. You have to decide and make the first choice of loving you first.

I have found this has been the conversation of many women. Over the years women & men have put on a few pounds. The weight may come from being comfortable with past/present lovers, children, depression or just a love for food. Before I go forward with anything I pray about it. I didn't have the weight light bulb go off until I realize how fast 40 was coming(this yr). And I decided to make the change for me last year. Don't let anyone shame you into losing weight, because you'll start but may not finish cause you heart isn't in it. You'll know when it's the right time and once you start it will become your addiction. Losing weight is a lifestyle change. I wish you well on your journey. Have faith and don't get discourage. One pound at a time. Miracles and Blessings ....

Be brave

Good morning loves...