Words of Wisdom told by Char

  Hi beautiful loves, I hope you all are doing well. Can't say I am 100 % great, but I am a good 80 % today. You know life is funny; some days, I am kicking life's ass, and other days it's kicking mines. I beat myself up too much; like many women, I wish I had a partner that wanted to do weekend warrior projects with me.  Honestly, I think all of those men are dead. It's so fucking depressing. I mean, where are the men that want to do the thing with their girl, wife, partner, or bae. Seems like women have to either do everything alone or with their children. What do you do when the children are grown, and you have no one?  I am so sick of being alone. I have a partner, but we rarely do stuff together. There has to be more to relationships than just sex and daily 20-30 minute phone calls to say you are connected with a person to keep an open line of communication. Just sad..... I'm not going to use the blog insert to wallow in my self-pity. Just a minute to vent to t

So it's been a while since I wrote an insert on my blog; been over a year now. I have been waiting on something to say to you all. So much has happened. I tried to rekindle an old relationship I thought was love and lost. 2022 was a Bitch. I spent most of the year looking for a place to live, and my life was pretty much shut down. It wasn't perfect, and I gained so much weight. I didn't know who I was; I wasn't Char anymore. I was becoming this middle, age Bitter Black Woman. ( And I didn't want to be her ass; EVER) Really glad I am turning a new season of change. ( Sage really works) Recently re-found love again in a much younger man. Felt like Stella got her groove back. LOL He actually makes me very happy and keeps me young physically. I have always felt young at heart, but now I feel young at heart, mind, and body. Let's not leave out the sex; it is so good, girl. Let me tell ya, I have been with different men in my lifetime, but this right here, my sis

What is going on???? You have these men that go out of their way to get you. Date you for a few months and the first confrontation about another women he cuts you off. What grown ass man does that? I am so confused right now....

I love to sit and watch how you interact with others how you move, talk, and your pose. All speaks in volumes to me. The smoothness of your skin, your voice, and the feel of your deep struck all shows your style.  It makes me scared cause I don't know where this is going. I'm I falling too deep,  too fast, or is it just what it is? I don't know but your soul speaks to my soul and she is digging you my beautiful Black man.  She loves to see you and hate when it's time to go. She doesn't know what to do. She just knows that she loves every ounce of you and even more. Her only concern is she afraid to open up her heart because she doesn't want to get hurt anymore. My dear black man let her know it's okay to love you and she will multiple that love tenfold.  Miracles and Blessing  Char

Why is it that some men will never tell you that you are beautiful until you leave them? And some men remind you everyday of how beautiful you are.. Ladies your melanin is BEAUTIFUL..

Men seem to be more of an emotional creature than women nowadays. Simple miss understanding can turn into him acting all emotional and bitchy. Sometimes I wonder where are the real men that seek understand to understand and to make things better. Without making the women feel rejected. It's truly exhausting. I am just lost times.  But I can't worry about another I have to self care and make sure I am good. Just too much sometimes. Miracles and Blessings  Char