Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

Remember when love songs said everything you wanted to say. Those break up to make up songs. The late nights listening to the Quiet Storm on the radio as a teenager. Some maybe too young to remember but, that was when all the love songs played. You would sneak on the phone late at night making a request when you was supposed to be in bed. Next day meeting up with your boyfriend or girlfriend at school. Everyone saying ahhhhhh I heard y'all song. Moving into adulthood  those love songs became the songs you made love too or knocked the boots too. Man I miss the 90's. Where did all the real singers go. Now in my mid-forties Saturday and Sunday nights are our night for love songs. Songs help you remember what love is all about. Help you remember why you feel in or out of love. One thing is for sure when you can't find the words find a song that can say it for you.. Miracles and Blessings luv's 

I watched this video on YouTube about Romance scammers called Cafe boys. What the hell.. These people are over in Africa scamming people all over the world out of there money.  They aren't  just scamming women they are scamming men also. They are guys acting as if they are real people trying to find love.  Please be careful on the web. Don't  for whatever reason send or give anyone your hard earn retirement money or money you work for. They are stealing military personnel, attractive men and women pictures. They are targeting divorcee and spouses of deceased people. Hell even single people and unhappy people in marriages.  Please don't  fall for these scams. Find real love in person. If they can't  visit or see you on video chat. Don't send them anything. Even if you me them in person proceed with CAUTION. They are only trying to get your money.  Please be safe and smart.

So my teenage daughter Kaiya. She's 18 so I guess I should say young adult daughter. Has been flip flopping about college. When I was her age we used college as a get out of jail free card. I COULDN'T  WAIT TO GET OUT MY MOMMA  HOUSE..... This new generation of young people often times get caught up in the Instagram photos,  Not real life reality tv. Why the hell do they even call it reality tv?  Reality for who? That's another blog insert. Anywho, pray for her that she decides to go and finish college with a degree in something to where she can be her own boss. 

You'll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The Secret of Success is found in your daily Routine.  - John C. Maxwell

Where have I been in the last year? Why have I neglected my blog? Sigh... where do I start.  Here is some transparency for you. A lot happen last year. I lost my dad and my maternal grandmother with 1 week of each other. My heart was torn apart.  To make matters worst my father new wife of four years left me out of the picture of planning for my father funeral. She even left me out of the family car the day of the funeral.  Yes, can you believe that I had to drive to my own father's funeral. I know what the fuck. That bitch.  Well it happen. Now I can't  just bash her without bashing my oldest sibling. I felt betrayed by him. I was like dude speak up for your sisters don't  kiss her ass. It failed brutally. He sided with her and they had a probate court session. Which didn't  include myself or my sister. So 2019 was this horrible bitch of a year. (STILL DEALING WITH THAT SHIT) So I went underground to try to find myself again and be whole. Listening to...