Let's Talk About Love/ Char's Corner

  So, it's been almost a year since I wrote a blog post. And I have to tell you a lot has happened. Your girl found herself and she realized her worth. No more trying to look for love in all the wrong places. I really had to start loving me. For those of you out there that are wondering if you can stand on your own two (2) feet? Yes you can, baby let me tell you it feels fucking good to be able to say you don't need someone. Not saying we ever did but I mean in the since of love. LOVE THYSELF FIRST Sis men will be men some will cheat and look at you and be like what at least I told you. My nigga you got caught. Others will be like a thief in the night sneaking and ducking to make sure you never find out.  Girrrrrrrllllll STOP !!!!!!!! You deserve better. You are better than that. Also be careful of these men that will tell you what they think you want to hear just to sleep with you. I got a mofo right now if I see him on fire I will be like let that mofo burn lying deceiving...

 🎉 Hurray, it's Mother's Day once again! 🌺 A delightful day to honor the superhero moms across the globe! Whether you receive gifts or not, every mother deserves a standing ovation for their tireless efforts and unconditional love.  Being a mom is one of life's greatest challenges, and for single mamas out there, you are truly amazing! Running from one activity to the next, cheering at every game, play, and recital – you ladies are unstoppable! So let's raise our glasses 🥂 to the world's most fabulous moms! You juggle careers, households, and still manage to be the anchors of our families. On this beautiful Mother's Day, stand tall and proud, for you have earned the highest praise and admiration.  Give yourselves a round of applause, dear mommies! 👏👏👏 You are the real MVPs, and we celebrate your strength, resilience, and never-ending devotion. Happy Mother's Day to you all! 💖

 Happy Sunday my luv's, I hope you all are doing well and finding love in all the right places. Remember to heal from your past and don't make anyone else pay for your past mistakes. There are people out here looking for real, honest love.  Let them in and they just might be your BLESSING...

  Hi beautiful loves, I hope you all are doing well. Can't say I am 100 % great, but I am a good 80 % today. You know life is funny; some days, I am kicking life's ass, and other days it's kicking mines. I beat myself up too much; like many women, I wish I had a partner that wanted to do weekend warrior projects with me.  Honestly, I think all of those men are dead. It's so fucking depressing. I mean, where are the men that want to do the thing with their girl, wife, partner, or bae. Seems like women have to either do everything alone or with their children. What do you do when the children are grown, and you have no one?  I am so sick of being alone. I have a partner, but we rarely do stuff together. There has to be more to relationships than just sex and daily 20-30 minute phone calls to say you are connected with a person to keep an open line of communication. Just sad..... I'm not going to use the blog insert to wallow in my self-pity. Just a minute to vent to t...

So it's been a while since I wrote an insert on my blog; been over a year now. I have been waiting on something to say to you all. So much has happened. I tried to rekindle an old relationship I thought was love and lost. 2022 was a Bitch. I spent most of the year looking for a place to live, and my life was pretty much shut down. It wasn't perfect, and I gained so much weight. I didn't know who I was; I wasn't Char anymore. I was becoming this middle, age Bitter Black Woman. ( And I didn't want to be her ass; EVER) Really glad I am turning a new season of change. ( Sage really works) Recently re-found love again in a much younger man. Felt like Stella got her groove back. LOL He actually makes me very happy and keeps me young physically. I have always felt young at heart, but now I feel young at heart, mind, and body. Let's not leave out the sex; it is so good, girl. Let me tell ya, I have been with different men in my lifetime, but this right here, my sis...

What is going on???? You have these men that go out of their way to get you. Date you for a few months and the first confrontation about another women he cuts you off. What grown ass man does that? I am so confused right now....